Mars/Venus Coach
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Mars/Venus Fairy Godmother

REVIEWS

What my Clients say!

The comments are mostly spontaneous and unsolicited and do not necessarily include a license to use their names. Professional confidentiality is a very high value for me so where I do not have clear permission to include names I omit them. Spelling and punctuation have been corrected for clarity.

It gives me great pleasure to read the concrete evidence of how people’s lives benefit from our work together and I welcome all the comments made about their experience.


‘The fact that Kit could take me from sobbing to discussing to sobbing to thinking to acting in less than three hours is "wow"! I can finally see a light at the end of this tunnel and I truly do want to show up and live my life and not simply exist or want to escape is a complete breakthrough in where my headset has been for quite some time now. I feel a sense of peace and hope and not despair, as when I first phoned. Life is indeed precious and none of us really know just how long we have, so if we want to live we have to be proactive and show up. Miracles really do and can happen... Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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‘Hi Kit, you so deserve to hear just how wonderful you are, you were my saving grace, I will never forget what you did for and with me I am so grateful, thank you Kit.’

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I want to say a BIG THANK You for the weekend workshop and for your hospitality. It was an amazing and knowledgeable experience and this very valuable. You are my iconic person and I am extremely grateful to Universe for letting me chance to meet you in my life!

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'She's been my fairy godmother. My angel.’

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'First of all, let me THANK you again and again for most wonderful weekend I had in years – I experienced and learned sooo much and I can honestly say – that weekend was my awakening moment and a great kick start for my self development.

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‘I love those questionnaires as they give such a great visual picture what is happening which otherwise would be impossible for me to analyse.’

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‘This is a life changing approach – I love it and practice daily. Still in a process and I do enjoy it very much.'

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‘Kit is unique. She is larger than life, a powerful and wonderful woman with an important message for you. You will laugh with her and cry with her growing and living in the moment. She will bring you back to life. I recommend what she can do for you wholeheartedly.’

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‘This was and is a VERY powerful thing for me!!! Loved the image which so clear showing what you need to do in order to succeed. No words could of discribe it better.’

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‘It is fascinating how such a great spectrum of emotions narrowing to 4 basic ones. I love it and use it, thank you!’

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‘To me – BUTTERFLY story – this was soooo powerful and it helps me enormously to change my attitude. THANK YOU for this story sooo much!!’

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‘Boundaries – this was a very important subject and eye opening. This is what I was lacking so much and now by using the knowledge I become much happier and most important without any unnecessary arguments and disappointments. Thank you so much!!!’

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‘I think of you often, and value the support and mentoring you provided to me, very much appreciated and kept me sane.’

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'how can I ever thank you, words express not enough, but I say thank you from the depths of my soul.’

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‘Kit’s life transforming story will inspire you with the possibilities for your life. She is a wonderful speaker.’ Rick & Patricia

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‘A truly natural speaker. Her testimonial is inspiring and the humour and depth of emotion that comes through her delivery always touches the heart. Inspirational and unique speaker.’ Eileen

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‘Kit is a truly inspirational speaker who speaks from the heart and touches the hearts of all who listen. Her story is a series of personal miracles which have made her the fabulous person she is today. Truly amazing.’

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‘The energy that surrounds Kit is just amazing. She is so willing to share that energy by word and action and is 100% capable to do so. She has an interesting and inspiring voice.- well worth listening to.’

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‘Kit’s powerful presence is sincere and emotional as she gives a brave account of her ‘miracle’ recovery from terminal cancer. Truly inspiring speaker.’

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‘Kit tells her story with such style and humour its easy to overlook her bravery and courage. She inspires us all.’

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‘We met by accident so many years ago I admired you immediately, not just because of your bravery in the face of a serious illness, but your love of life and your caring about others.’

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‘Everyone who has spoken to me since our conversation has commented on how uplifted I seem. You quite transformed my spirits.’

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‘How wonderful that you can offer so much out of your experience with cancer and I can imagine how wonderful it is for you too to be able to do that.’

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‘So good talking to you. Thanks for the info on laughter - fascinating, I will keep rereading it.’

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I'm staying positive - thank you for your crucial help in that. Somehow you've picked me up from the bottom each time - you have a gift and a generous spirit, a great combination. May God bless you and yours richly.’

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‘God bless you lots. You are an utterly gorgeous person. I've got to get better to meet you.’

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‘Thank you for everything that you have sent me. I'm thirsty and needy for it all. You do go the extra mile. I got your brochure this morning and read the quotes. I will order your book. I need to laugh more.’

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‘It was lovely to put a face to a voice, you are so gorgeous and you have such a special gift. I can't think of anyone who comes close to being able to make me really feel more hopeful and positive.’

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‘It really helps me to talk to someone like you who has been really up against it and has nevertheless
healed.’

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‘THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!! For the advice you gave me yesterday. It really perked up my point of view of the whole affair and I did what you said and it went down a storm. The owner was there and he was really happy with everything I have done and they want to continue to work with me – yey!!’

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‘I just want to say what a wonderful person you are and how lucky I feel to know you and be able to work with you and talk with you. You mentioned about other being critical but I think you are just about perfect!! :)’

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'Kit has been a catalyst to me making important changes in my life – gave me the focus I needed.'

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‘I have become more playful.'

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'Don't get black moods any more. Nothing gets me down and I am a support to friends.'

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'Helped me to see things with more humour.'

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'Was on downwards spiral. Wasn’t coping. Helped me break the cycle’.

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'A cornerstone of my recovery.'

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'I've changed beyond recognition. I'm a lot more open to ideas.'

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‘What she (Kit) gave me was hugely valuable.'

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'Sense of humour and sense of fun helped the healing process.'

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'Kit always seemed to have the right resource up her sleeve – a book, an idea... even at times when I felt at my most bleak.'

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'Someone who genuinely seemed to care.'

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'She was exactly right for me and far surpassed my expectations.'

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'Her honey-toned voice; her calming presence; she was like an armchair.'

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'A very good listener.'

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'Someone who had been through a similar situation and was still standing!'

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'Empowers me so I feel I'm managing the treatment.’

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'Has this way of planting positive ideas about how things could be in the future – that sounded far-fetched at the time, but actually turned out to be true, now I look back!'

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'The work that you and Rosy do is most important. Not invasive. Helpful supportive and targeted to what the individual needs.’

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'The work we did together helped me develop resilience and coping strategies – I became less vulnerable and more integrated.’

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'Kit has this ability to get to the nub of things. And she doesn't get frustrated – there's never any pressure (which is so important as we often put so much pressure and self criticism on ourselves already).'

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'The overriding thing I've learnt is that its absolutely OK just to be myself. That's absolutely fine.'

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‘Someone who can say there's light at the end of the tunnel even though it's hard to believe sometimes. I would recommend Kit as a person - she is a good person to talk to, in whatever capacity.’

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‘Anyone who's going through or has gone through a big health crisis - mental or physical and getting back to the 'new normal' because can never be the same person as before.’

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“To anyone who's had a tough time and needs to recalibrate their life.”

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‘The way she handled everything, really – I never felt like I was in crisis!’

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‘I just greatly enjoyed the whole process – it was like a breath of fresh air in the midst of turmoil.’

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‘The laughter aspect. She always came across with a laugh in her voice.’

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‘A lightness of touch that was very attractive to me.’

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‘Knowing that she'll always be sympathetic and constructive turning it into an action. Not '”There there, dear”.’

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‘Knowing that you'll end up with a plan and have a way forward.’

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'It's been a real adventure. My cancer journey has been quite interesting and Kit has been like my funny, wise guide.’

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‘Enlightening, empowering. Funny. Good fun. Fantastic!'

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‘Having an hour to talk about myself to someone who listens is A GOOD THING. I would look forward to this. And an important element of this is being able to mark your progress. You reflect back and she's able to say we started off here and we're now here. Things are improving! Little steps. Someone to hold onto that for you.’

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‘The light-heartedness. I was starting out working for myself. She was incredibly lovely. To have someone to talk things through with was a big thing. She does it light-heartedly and in a very nice way. It helped alleviate the enormous isolation I felt in leaving my job and starting up on my own. This complete isolation – I was just not used to it at all. She was extremely knowledgeable about all kinds of things – articles, books, that might be useful, anecdotes about herself and other people and this helped support and encourage. The Louise Hay stuff was very valuable – to see what's led to x, y and z health condition, etc. I think I had lost my sense of humour – she awakened that as well. She also helped me trust the process of life again.’

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‘I guess that I’m just confident that because she always comes up with the appropriate things at the appropriate time that that will continue. She's been through all sorts of different situations with different people - I believe she will always have the tools I need and offer them at the right time. There's always something to learn.’

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‘Laughter work, I expect would be particularly beneficial for me. I still feel I have a lot to learn about joy and laughter. She did this 'what's standing between you and your joy' exercise and it made me realise that I could stop worrying about everyone else and what they might be thinking or feeling. I've got to be enough – rather than a massive martyr resenting everybody.’

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‘She helped me move through my old patterns really quickly.’

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'I'm just thrilled that I'm still in contact with her as she's been incredibly helpful to me and I like her very much.'

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'She's like a warm blanket. She said to me once when I was going through a particularly tough time with the treatment. Even if I’m not there you can wrap my love around you like a warm blanket. She's a warm blanket kind of woman.’

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'She's a wonderful, wonderful lady and I'm privileged to have found her and to be able to work with her. Quite apart from what's happened since – I feel blessed to have had her in my life. I can't speak highly enough of her.’

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'Having Kit on my team over the past few months has felt like a real gift and I can’t imagine how I would have moved forward so quickly without her.’

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'The moment I hear her voice on the phone my shoulders drop. She has this remarkable ability to calm me down’.

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'I really feel like I asked the universe for Kit and there she was. Really helped, when I got myself into a difficult place, that I could say to myself, 'It's OK, I'm speaking to Kit tomorrow!’

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'I find Kit a lovely inspiring woman who generates good and positive vibes and I think that I really benefited from those good vibes.'

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'It's really helped to have her in my corner, fighting my corner. Because you need as many people fighting your corner as possible sometimes. Particularly with something like cancer.’

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‘The three words: Inspirational Profoundly intuitive Compassionate ‘Incredible Intriguing!!!’

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‘Kit kind of leads me out of my comfort zone gently, without me knowing - and I'm not even aware of it until I'm out of it!’

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‘I think to spread laughter and fun in the world when it is as it is really is the tops!’

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‘It's a wonderful thing to be able to get people to relax and do things that they wouldn't normally dream of doing.’

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'I would recommend this kind of work to most of my friends I would think. And anybody that's down and so on. Kit could help anybody.

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People are attracted to her, because of her joie de vivre and other things – and she spreads it. If you just look at the disparate people who come and she has us all laughing and doing silly things – it's wonderful!'

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