Mars/Venus Coach
Mars/Venus Fairy Godmother


In 1998 when my cancer situation had become very serious and I was praying for a miracle Louise L Hay’s book You Can Heal Your Life appeared to me in a bookshop. It changed my life in all the ways that were necessary for my prayer to be answered,”Yes”.

A big part of that was Louise’s insistence that Forgiveness was a key part of my recovery and I have been working with it both personally an professionally ever since. Now I am offering a revolutionary healing retreat with the focus firmly on forgiving.

There are many misconceptions about Forgiveness and we will clarify what it is and what it isn’t and step by step release the ‘baggage’ that is holding us back from creating the life of our dreams.


There is a sense that forgiveness is a weak, wishy-washy act of someone who has been injured letting the perpetrator off the hook. Nothing could be further from the truth!

“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” Albert Einstein


When you refuse to forgive you remain stuck in the role of the victim of whatever boundary transgression has taken place. This mindset bleeds into every aspect of your life often with very unfortunate consequences.


“You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger.” Buddha

Once you have done your own forgiveness work you become free of the marionette strings that previously controlled your life. Not only that but – fascinatingly – if your relationship with the offender is ongoing – you will find the life of the other is quite changed SEEMINGLY JUST BY THE REMOVAL OF YOUR CHARGED ENERGY.

You may say, “That’s all very well but I haven’t the slightest idea of how to actually do it!” And you are right. It is not easy work but it is possible to forgive and release so that the talons of resentment let you go. This healing weekend retreat focuses solely on forgiveness and what it is, how it works and actually getting to grips with doing it and clearing its malign effects out of your body.